• Where do ideas come from?

    Writers’ brains are a complex array of thoughts, impressions, and feelings that want to be expressed, that sometimes demand to be expressed. Most of the time ideas are plentiful, words are flowing, life is good.

    And then, without warning, that same brain goes completely silent.

    In those moments of silence, we want to be writing flowing prose or quirky poems, but our minds are asking, “Whut r words?” as if we’ve never had a complete thought in our life.

    In those moments, we may need to take a breath and allow our brains to re-charge. We may just need to collect ideas to store for later.

    Where do we find ideas?

    We find ideas in random bits of information that bounce around and won’t leave us alone. Not everyone experiences this, so let me assure you that if you have an idea that won’t let go until you do something with it, you are a writer. 

    Tricia Goyer, author of From Dust and Ashes, was on a trip with friends in Austria when she heard about the liberation of the Gusen and Mauthausen concentration camps on May 5,1945.  This historical account would not leave her alone and she turned it into a beautiful story of redemption and forgiveness. 

    When he was 16 years old, C. S. Lewis had the image of a fawn carrying an umbrella and parcels in a snowy wood. When he was 40 he wrote a story around that image, which became Mr. Tumnus in The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe.

    Like I said, these thoughts demand to be expressed, no matter how long it takes.

    Being curious is a great place to find ideas. 

    Ask why. Get curious about human nature, curious about the way society works, curious about the rules that the HOA in your neighborhood chooses to enforce. Channel your inner toddler and ask “Why?” over and over.  Unlike the toddler, though, look at your answers and go deeper with each why. 

    Example: Why do people do the things they do? Why do people stay in toxic relationships? Why can’t they let go? Why do they ignore some red flags but not others? 

    The first paragraph of Divergent takes something as simple as looking into a mirror, an action we do without thinking, and makes it a once-a-year event. Every sentence in that first paragraph makes the reader ask why and that keeps the reader reading.

    Ask What would happen if….What would happen if a western took place in space? What would happen if your main character tripped in front of the protagonist of the story? What would happen if your pet fought crime while you were at work?

    Ideas are waiting for us in our own imagination. A terrifying fever-induced nightmare gave James Cameron the visual for Terminator, while real world current events shaped the story.

    Ideas pop out at us from the things we read. Brandon Mull was fascinated by the wardrobe in The Lion, The Witch, and The Wardrobe. This led him to develop his own portal fantasy series, Five Kingdoms, where the portal is a spooky neighborhood haunted house on Halloween.

    The local News is filled with potential ideas.  Sometimes life really is stranger than fiction. Watch the news with a pen in hand or keep a file of headlines that fascinate (or perplex) you. Here are a few headlines from my current file. They may be true. They may be fake news. Either way, they are filled with ideas.

    • Man arrested after posing as a museum tour guide and inventing entire fake histories for every painting.
    • Charlie Chaplin was kidnapped twice – but he was alive for only one of them.
    • On September 3,1967 Sweden switched from driving on the left side of the road to the right side. Recipe for chaos?
    • Police chase involving a stolen hearse and a Dollar General. 
    • An aggressive water buffalo on the loose and prowling the streets of Iowa. 

    Pay attention to what is going on around you. Look at it from a writer’s perspective. Writers notice things that other people miss. I wrote a short story inspired by a man completely losing it in front of his kids at a hockey game. The story was about a kid on a hockey team. What happens when the lines get blurred between doing your best and doing whatever it takes to win?  

    We don’t live or write in a vacuum. We walk through each day surrounded by current events, things that don’t make sense and a healthy dose of curiosity. Some people complain and others debate. Writers can use this combination as fuel for their imagination. 

    6 Things to do If you are stuck in no-idea land 

    Do something different. Drive a different way to work. Go to a different coffee shop to write. Write in a different spot in your house.

    Look up writing prompts. A random writing prompt can get your mind moving in a different direction. It may end up being a way to fill a blank page or it may become the idea for a new scene in your current work in progress.

    Watch the local news or read a local newspaper with a pen in hand. I’d love to see a list of headlines after a week of doing this. Seriously, send it to me!

    Ask What would happen if…about something random. What if gravity only worked on Wednesdays? What if gravity only worked on some people? What if gravity was sporadic, like the geysers at Yellowstone? 

    Give Yourself Permission to Slow Down. Our brains can’t be creative if we are going full speed ahead with no moments of quiet to think. Walking helps me. The motion of walking helps my mind relax and the ideas start flowing. 

    View yourself as a collector. Ideas can come from anywhere – a random quote, an unusual turn of phrase in the middle of a conversation, the name of a coffee drink at your favorite coffee shop, and,apparently, even a fever-induced nightmare.  Become a collector of ideas. Write them down as they come to you. Create a note on your phone where you write down ideas as they come. Then when you feel stuck, you have ideas that might get you going again.

    You don’t have to do anything with them. If they are meant to become something, they will start bugging you until you do something with them – even if it takes over 20 years. 

    Erin Ulerich enjoys encouraging other writers on Space to Create Writing Life and at the annual Space to Create Writing Retreats she hosts with her team in French Camp, MS. Her debut YA Christian Fantasy novel, Angkura: Hesed, releases November 7.

  • A Note from Howie: Get Comfortable with Being a Beginner
  • Writing Tip: Write out the action that happens behind the scenes.

    I was stuck. 

    I needed a character to believe a lie. But if my main character, Elizabeth, heard the lie she would’ve jumped in, exposed it, and prevented the action needed to move the plot forward. 

    My main character was actually in the way.

    I paced. I pondered. I studied the situation from different angles. Then I pulled out a piece of paper and started writing.

    I wrote out the conversation between the two side characters. It was a ROUGH draft, and won’t appear in the book, but my brain couldn’t describe the result of the conversation without actually experiencing the conversation.

    This was a HUGE 💡moment for me.

    Share a recent A-HA moment you’ve had. It might help another writer who is stuck on a scene in their story.

  • Meet Mytecia! 2026 Space to Create Writing Retreat Speaker Spotlight

    Meet Mytecia!

    I’d never met an agent in real life, so I didn’t know what to expect. Mytecia is warm, approachable, encouraging, and has a passion for helping writers get their words out into the world.

    In other words, she’s amazing.

    Join us as we discuss agent life and her workshop at the 2026 Space to Create Writing Retreat.

    About Mytecia R. Myles

    A native of Detroit, MI, Mytecia Myles is a creative, bold, and authentic leader, an author strategist serving writers, creatives, and brands for over 30 years.

    Myles is a publishing consultant, associate literary agent, and leads author development at Embolden Media Group. Myles is a faculty member at the College of Media and Entertainment, Scott Borchetta College of Media and Entertainment, School of Journalism and Strategic Media,
    where she teaches media writing, public relations, and professional development to future media professionals.

    As a co-creator, book editor, and workshop presenter, Myles has had the honor of working with diverse groups of aspiring writers. She has helped writers in becoming published authors. In addition, she provides her signature masterclass, Write, Self-Publish, and PR Your Book LIke A Pro, to help writers navigate from concept ideation through publishing while influencing literary legacy. She is the host of Mytecia’s Extraordinary Woman Book Club, facilitator of Literary Cafe, Writer’s Group.

    Visit her website at www.myteciarenaemedia.com and connect with her on LinkedIn.

    About Her Workshop & Coaching

    Ask Me Anything…with an Agent 

    Have you ever wanted to sit down with a literary agent and a list of questions? Here’s your chance! Mytecia Myles will lead an Ask Me Anything discussion.

    Book Proposal Coaching with Mytecia – $50

    Meet with Mytecia to discuss ways your book proposal. Get expert guidance on creating a compelling, submission ready book proposal that publishers actually respond to covering your manuscript overview, market analysis, marketing and PR, author platform, and more. In just 30 minutes, you’ll gain clarity, strategy, and a clear path toward pitching with confidence.

    We hope you will join us!

    All the details about the retreat are here:

    2026 Space to Create Writing Retreat – Space to Create Writing Life

    Mark your calendar for February 26-March 1, 2026 and join us! If you have any questions, feel free to reach out at erinulerich@gmail.com

    Registration closes February 6, 2026

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  • Meet Linsey! 2026 Space to Create Writing Retreat Speaker Spotlight

    Meet Linsey!

    Linsey is one of the co-founders of the Space to Create Writing Retreat. She keeps me moving forward when I get stress paralyzed about retreat and writing details. Linsey is also AMAZING at creating characters. I am so excited that she is going to share her process with us in her workshop at the writing retreat.

    Join us as we talk about her workshop.

    About Linsey Ewing

    Linsey Ewing is a writer, editor, and creative coach based in central Mississippi. She writes courses as well as fiction and helps other writers go from “stuck” to “done” with their works in progress.

    She is the author of Variations on the Theme of Goodbye, LUKE, The Daily Grind, the LIVING WRITE and EDIT SOBER courses, and a variety of smaller works. You can learn more at linseyewing.com.

    About Her Workshop

    Creating Characters Readers Want to Know – This workshop provides a practical blueprint for developing complex characters that leap off the page and into your readers’ hearts. Workshop attendees will learn to create robust, memorable characters using a framework of internal depth, relationships, and conflict.

    We hope you will join us!

    All the details about the retreat are here:

    2026 Space to Create Writing Retreat – Space to Create Writing Life

    Mark your calendar for February 26-March 1, 2026 and join us! If you have any questions, feel free to reach out at erinulerich@gmail.com

    Registration closes February 6, 2026

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  • Meet Charlie! 2026 Space to Create Writing Retreat Speaker Spotlight

    Meet Charlie!

    Charlie is a bit of an anomaly in this space. He’s the brave soul coming to talk to a group of writers about the financial side of the writing life.

    Whether you consider writing as a hobby or a business, there are costs involved. In fact the most common thing I hear among writers is a desire for the writing to pay for itself. I’ve asked Charlie to come help us figure out how to do just that.

    About Charlie

    Charlie Plunkett is a Financial Representative with Modern Woodmen. He enjoys helping people deal with unique situations, overcome life changes, or plan for future goals.

    About His Workshop

    Foundational Financial Planning: Writer’s Edition –

    In this engaging, conversation-based workshop, Charlie will cover common challenges, practical strategies, and ways to set meaningful, achievable savings goals for writers.

    We hope you will join us!

    All the details about the retreat are here:

    2026 Space to Create Writing Retreat – Space to Create Writing Life

    Mark your calendar for February 26-March 1, 2026 and join us! If you have any questions, feel free to reach out at erinulerich@gmail.com

    Registration closes February 6, 2026

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  • Meet K.P. Haven! 2026 Space to Create Writing Retreat Speaker Spotlight
    Meet K.P. Haven!

    With my coffee and her holiday Coke Zero in hand, K.P. Haven and I enjoyed talking about her workshop at the upcoming Space to Create Writing Retreat.

    Grab your favorite beverage and join us!

    About K.P. Haven

    K. P. HAVEN is a multi-book romance author known for delivering gritty, emotional worlds with slow-burn romance. She lives in a small southern town with her husband, three children, and adorable pups. When she’s not on a self-imposed deadline, she enjoys slow mornings, reading, and mint chocolate chip ice cream.

    About Her Workshops

    Writing Romance that Feels Real – There’s a fine line between swoon-worthy and cringe. Romance may be the heartbeat of storytelling, but it takes more than tropes and chemistry to make readers truly feel it.

    Join internationally read, multi-book romance author K.P. Haven as she shares how to craft love stories that feel authentic, emotionally layered, and anything but cliché.

    From emotional arcs to POV dynamics and the art of yearning and tension, this session dives into how to build romance that feels real on the page.

    We hope you will join us!

    All the details about the retreat are here:

    2026 Space to Create Writing Retreat – Space to Create Writing Life

    Mark your calendar for February 26-March 1, 2026 and join us! If you have any questions, feel free to reach out at erinulerich@gmail.com

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  • Meet Anthony!2026 Space to Create Writing Retreat Speaker Spotlight

    Meet Anthony!

    We are pleased to introduce Anthony Wood as the main speaker for the 2026 Space to Create Retreat.

    Anthony and I were guests at the Choctaw County Library’s Holiday Open House earlier this month, so we decided to do our interview in person. I hope you enjoy our interview as much as I did!

    About Anthony

    Anthony Wood grew up in historic Natchez, Mississippi, fueling a life-long love of history. He lived in Alaska for several years but returned to the South and ministered nearly three decades among the poor, homeless, and incarcerated.

    Leading an effort that planted five urban churches inspired him to co-author Up Close and Personal: Embracing the Poor about his work in the
    Memphis inner city. He also authored a number of articles and stories about his ministry.

    Anthony is a member of Turner’s Battery living history group, the Civil War Round Table of Arkansas, and serves as President of White County Creative Writers group.
    His short stories have won multiple awards, and have been published in Saddlebag Dispatches, The Vault of Terror, The Avocet: A Journal of Nature Poetry, Writer’s Monthly, and several anthologies. One of those stories Not So Long in the Tooth, won a Will Rogers Medallion in the Best Western Short Fiction category for 2021.

    Anthony has authored several books, including a historical fiction series in A Tale of Two Colors and The Name Tree about his journey through the thin veil to find his daughter who took her life.

    Anthony was inducted into the Arkansas Writer’s Hall of Fame in June, 2024. A Tale of Two Colors sets the stage for Anthony’s upcoming western trilogy, The Atalanta Chronicles.

    Anthony enjoys roaming and researching historical sites, photographing nature and wildlife, camping and kayaking on the Mississippi River, and being with family. Anthony and his wife, Lisa, live in Conway, Arkansas.

    You can find Anthony on Facebook and Instagram or visit his website at anthonywoodauthor.com

    About His Workshops

    Writing Historical Fiction – Anthony Wood
    Historical fiction writing is traveling back in time to bring accurate events, people, and places to the present through stories that entertain readers. Anthony will help us understand the dynamics associated with writing historical fiction and share practical tips on how to write it effectively.

    Healing through Writing – Anthony Wood
    Writers explore the depths of their own souls as they create. That often means traveling through a heart of pain. Anthony will share his journey and practical ways to help both author and reader heal through writing.

    Traditional Publishing: Still a Viable Option – Anthony Wood
    If your writing travel plans include being published, finding a traditional publisher might be a stop on your journey to success as an author. Anthony will share from his experience about being published by a traditional publishing house.

    We hope you will join us!

    All the details about the retreat are here:

    2026 Space to Create Writing Retreat – Space to Create Writing Life

    Mark your calendar for February 26-March 1, 2026 and join us! If you have any questions, feel free to reach out at erinulerich@gmail.com

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  • The Writing Life

    The Writing Life

    I have a writing friend who is a little bossy. Do you have someone in your life like that? A friend that will encourage you but also kick you in the pants when you need it.

    My friend’s name is Howie, and when I complain about the writing life, he says. “Erin, that’s just how the writing life is.”

    For example, we talk about procrastination a lot. Writers are GREAT procrastinators. Many things cause us to procrastinate – it could be fear, it could be just not knowing what to do next. The fact is, we are going to want to procrastinate.

    As Howie would say, “That’s just how the writing life is.” And he would tell me that I have a choice. I can choose to give in and procrastinate and then feel stressed about procrastinating. Or I can view procrastination as a warning sign that I am feeling something that is keeping me stuck. As you can imagine, Howie tells me to get curious and explore that something.

    See, he’s bossy.

    Howie has helped me with the way I look at the writing life.

    Is it hard to sit down and write? Yes, but we find ways to make it happen. This is how we do it.

    Is it uncomfortable to do a Facebook Live? Yes, but we push ourselves through the uncomfortable. This is how we do it.

    Does it make me literally sweat to submit an article or story to be considered for publication? Yep! But, as you can guess, this is how we do it.

    This is how we approach the writing life.

    There will be hard things. It’s okay! We can do hard things.

    There will be times when we want to stop. But if we want to keep moving forward, then we keep going, even if the going is slow. Howie says microscopic steps forward are still steps forward.

    He’s encouraging when he’s not being bossy.

    There will be moments when we look like the beginner we are. And that’s ok! This is how we do it.

    Here at Space to Create Writing Life, we have 8 principles that guide us through this wonderful adventure called the writing life. This is how we approach the writing life, our writing life worldview, if you will.

    Our words have weight. There are people who need to hear what you have to say.

    It may take time for our words to come. They are worth waiting for.

    Creating space in our life to dream allows us to be the person we were created to be.

    Courage and fear will be ever-present, but we choose courage over fear. (This is one where Howie has to push me. He sounds like a Nike commercial. Just do it.)

    We create at a pace that moves us forward without sacrificing the depth of our words. 

    We don’t have to have everything figured out to begin, we just need a direction. (Anyone else get stuck gathering information instead of just beginning? Howie has to push me on that too.)

    Recognizing that the creative life is a collaborative journey, we reach out to those behind us on the path.

    We guard against comparing our stage of the journey with those ahead of us.

    Sometimes we all just need someone to say, “That’s just how the writing life is.” This is how we do it.

    If you need to borrow my Howie, you are welcome to! Just remember, he can be bossy!

    If you need encouragement in your writing journey, join this community! Sign up below and follow @spacetocreatewritinglife on Instagram and Facebook.

  • Meet Carrie!2026 Space to Create Writing Retreat Speaker Spotlight

    Meet Carrie!

    Carrie’s energy is like a cup of coffee – invigorating and inspiring. Grab a cup of coffee and join us as we talk about her workshops and her coaching sessions at the Space to Create Writing Retreat.

    Spending time with Carrie inspires me to keep moving forward with writing. I hope it does the same for you!

    About Carrie

    Carrie Watts is an author, speaker, and podcaster dedicated to inspiring women to find strength and faith in their journeys. Her debut young adult Christian fiction novel, Crisis of Faith, explores themes of friendship, resilience, childhood trauma, human trafficking, and spiritual growth, resonating with young women navigating life’s challenges. She is cowriting the sequel, titled Hope Rising”.

    Carrie’s passion for empowering others stems from her diverse background, including nursing, ministry, and community leadership.

    She hosts the podcast Saved and Strong, where she engages with listeners on topics of faith, healing, and strength in Christ after struggle.

    She speaks about the “Story behind the Story”, the author life, and coaches other authors to keep moving forward in their calling to help others. Focusing on the powerful message they have been chosen to share, she inspires them to keep their minds on the Heavenly Father and His reward. She is committed to helping women discover their purpose in every season of life.

    Carrie resides in Brandon, Mississippi, where she enjoys quiet mornings with coffee, writing, and connecting with her community.

    You can connect with Carrie on her website, carriewatts.com and on Instagram @carriewattswrites

    About Her Workshops

    Script it, Speak it, Share it!- Carrie Watts
    Does marketing your work make you uneasy or send you running for the door? It’s time to face those fears and learn why your voice matters. In this simple three-step presentation you’ll gain practical tools and the confidence to market yourself, your writing, and your message with boldness.

    Self- Publishing Options – Carrie Watts

    Carrie Watts will share her experience with Hope Books in publishing her first book, Crisis of Faith.

    Retreat attendees can also sign up for one-on-one coaching sessions with Carrie to talk about writing or marketing.

    We hope you will join us!

    All the details about the retreat are here:

    2026 Space to Create Writing Retreat – Space to Create Writing Life

    Mark your calendar for February 26-March 1, 2026 and join us! If you have any questions, feel free to reach out at erinulerich@gmail.com

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